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Question: What are some red & green flags?
Ashley Cooke: Ooh, that’s a great question. Red flags, I would say when they’re inconsistent, I think if somebody is interested in you and in a healthy way, they will be consistent with how they show up for you, show up, you know, for your time, they’ll pursue consistently, all of that. So I think red flags, that a red flag is inconsistency. I think using like Snapchat is a red flags. I really do, I think when guys are like, what’s your snap? And not like, what’s you number, it just gives me the ick. And then I think being rude to anybody. If they talk about other girls negatively to you, they’re probably talking about you negatively too. So, no, get away from me. Green flag, I would say if they’re close to their family, I’d say if they’re kind to you even when they don’t need to be. Like if they’re patient and kind to you in situations when maybe it doesn’t benefit them. I think that’s a really big green flag.
